Most of Cristi's work happens before anyone sees the inside of a courtroom. She listens for the situation underneath the situation: the financial picture, the family dynamics, the ownership someone has of a business, the schedule that two parents are going to have to live inside on the other side of all this. Then she designs a path that fits.
That path is usually collaborative or a negotiated divorce run between counsel — sometimes with formal mediation as the move that gets the matter settled. Occasionally it's contested litigation, when the other side has forced it or when temporary orders are needed before any conversation about resolution can happen. Cristi has tried cases for nearly three decades. She is prepared to. She would prefer not to need to.
The reason for the preference is not philosophical squeamishness about court. It's that decades of evidence point the same direction: contested litigation is the most expensive way to resolve a family matter, the most damaging to the relationships that have to keep functioning afterward, and the path with the least client control over the outcome. A judge with thirty other cases that week is going to make a decision based on the worst day each spouse had in front of them. That is rarely the decision a client would have made for themselves.
Cristi runs the firm on that observation. The four-phase practice — Clarify, Chart the path, Resolve, Forward — is the structure she's built around it.