No. Children aren't allowed to choose when and with which parent they visit. You are bound by the court ordered visitation with the non custodial parent and therefore must surrender your child. Otherwise you could be held in contempt of court, which could mean fines or even jail time. If for some reason you feel that the court ordered visitation schedule isn't appropriate, you may return to court to request it be reviewed and possibly changed.
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